Wednesday, 22 August 2012

f2f communication takes the back seat

It is really funny how social networks have taken over .We have gotten to a point were our life revolves around these networks  you wake up in the morning and the first thing you do before even getting out of bed is to check you're cellphone , while you driving you texting , when you at a meeting you texting we are constantly click clicking  and check what is happening in and around the world , yes don't get me wrong getting with the times is never wrong , if fact its the way to go  . But it doesn't have to be in the expense of your happiness . People tend to prioritise social networks so much . Internet has made the world such a small place . We have development after development every single day . Weather or not its good , we still question . because Internet has taken out the fun in socialising people hardly every see each other just because you can just send an sms , a bbm , skype , watsapp you name it . Communication is at the tip of your finger . Yes it might have its many advantages but its got its disadvantages too , one which gets to me alot is the lies , you will hear people speaking on the phone saying they at home while they at a shopping mall , its so easy to lie because of social networks . Our profiles tell the world how happy we are and just how we enjoying life when in reality we  just lonely .We have become such an antisocial generation . Even when you are with people around you you are constantly worried about that tinny thing in your pocket that keeps vibrating . i really think we need to calm down just a little bit . Actually this has to start with me , alone , as an individual . Because as i write this post I'm literally taking 5sec breaks to read texts  . Yes social networks are convenient but we need to also take into considerence the importance of face-to-face communication . It is more real and satisfying ...actually i think its better *tossing phone in the bag * from this moment on , I am making a choice to spend my time usefully . New friendships cannot be made if your focus is on networks . You may never know the wonderful friendship that just slipped by , the client that could have changed the world for you as you know it , or the handsome soul mate that was about to ask you for a date had your cellphone not rang . www.helium.com .

9 comments:

  1. i do agree with what you saying , but somehow it has made things easier as well, for example instead of having to waste money on having to travel a long distance just for a meeting or an interview, you cut out the middle man and do that with your phone, #blackberry, bbm

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  2. I totally agree with what you are saying. There will come a time where all the things we do manually will be done technologically by robots or something. Technology has taken over the world, and looking at its growth today, who knows what is coming up tomorrow in the world of technology?

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  3. @ gift that is true but thats not all ther is to it ,what im saying is we need to hav a balance because its gettting one sided

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  4. @ sizzle itz really intense ,we going to end up getting married to robots .i can just imagn how its going to be a decade from nw ...

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  5. I wholeheartedly agree with you when you say this generation has become antisocial owing to today`s technology,but then on the other hand it provides some different companionship.From a PR perspective,practitioners take advantage of social networks to get their messages through their target audience which is also advantageous to an organisation.

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  6. lol stella reli? a robot? i wudnt mind though ... imagine kissing the robot ,wen its turned on it turns red n screams 'mmmmmmmm..baybeeeeeeee'.

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  7. Social network make many people to be unti-social.

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  8. @ ZUBE yes im not saying technology is completetly wrong im just saying its giving face to face communication a run for its money .

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  9. @ young and free , its true and verry sad hey ,i just wish we had a balance .

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