that gay friend ,your favourite accesory ?

The best thing about living in johannesburg is the fact that everyone can be absolutely anything they want to be weather it be a hippy,a stoner, or a book worm  you name it this city will welcome you with open arms. When you here you are better accepted for who you are than if you where anywhere else. Take gays for instance we have more gay people coming out the closet  and embracing their sexuality when they are in this city than anywhere else, and that's because joburg gives you the freedom to be yourself which for me is the best thing you can do for yourself.

Every gay men is unique,they posses a special  confidence, spunk and charisma. Most have amazing personalities other men dream to have. They are amazing to befriend and the most honest people i know ... NOW  the problem comes when girls just want a gay friend just because its said to be "cool " now that's absolute insanity. I mean it’s basically the same thing as saying, ‘I want an Asian best friend, so she can help me with math homework. It is mean and unfair to the gay society. This stereotype can even  rob gay men of their individuality and that forces a false image onto them. It is really bad to base your friendship on one aspect of this persons character, because no one is defined by their sexuality.  Are you friends with people who are straight just because they are straight ?obviously not.  Same goes for anyone who is gay, you are not only going to like them just because they gay. There has to be more to that relationship than the cool factor of having a gay friend, you might share your love for shopping and uncomfortable feelings of attraction to trey songs that's the extra bit that we love. Gay people are fun and exciting to be around, I mean I have tons of gay friends, and I treasure my relationship with them dearly. I just dont think they would want to be thought of as  a stereotype, and as a trendy accesory for girls.

A neck piece, a head band or purse ...accesories ,human being ?definetely NOT !!!